I am one of 4 bridesmaids and we have been trying to plan a bridal shower for our friend. The brides' mom insisted that she could not host the shower because it would be considered "tacky". She also said she would not contribute financially since she is strapped for cash. and that it was OUR responsibility to host/pay for it. The bridesmaids are all in their 20's and have their own financial issues to worry about as well. However, we were willing to put aside $200 each for the shower. Her mom is insisting that we invite over 60 people to the shower. We can not afford to cover that many. We have expressed this to her but she feels it would be rude not to invite everyone on her list. We had planned a beautiful shower in a nice venue that would take care of most of the details for the shower. Instead, we are forced to have it at a town hall to accommodate the extra guest. We don't have the time to purchase all of the food, utensils, plates, decorations ex that this new venue would require considering half the bridesmaids don't live close. (We are also planning / paying for her bachelorette party)
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