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Caitlin
Just Said Yes October 2021

Mother of the Bride Dress!

Caitlin, on January 9, 2020 at 3:20 PM Posted in Pennsylvania Planning 0 14

HELP! Current, Past and Future Brides in the Greater Philadelphia Region,

I want advice on where to take my mom shopping to get a dress. We went to one salon, told them our budget (which we thought was a pretty generous budget) and the lady picked out gowns for my mom that were twice her budget (without telling us) and my mom fell in love with one and then found out the price was insane. I want to avoid another occurrence like this, but also get my mom a rockin' dress.

My mom would like to spend no more than $750, but she would spend up to $1,000 if she loved a dress bec. she does go to other events she could re-wear the gown to. She has a great body (5'4, 120 lbs, killer arms) and is looking for something a-lined with a v-neck. She wants to go slightly on the less busy side bec. my dad will be wearing a kilt and she doesn't want to clash. The dress she tried on and loved was a navy satin a-line with v-neck, very classic, very Grace Kelly (was designed by Wayne Clark). My wedding colors are darker, so we want to stick in the navy, black, burgundy, grey, etc. palate.

Please help! I'm thinking maybe going to high-end department stores (like Neiman Marcus, Bergdorf Goodman, etc.) may make more sense than going to bridal salons. Thoughts?! Stores tried and proven?


Thanks!

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Latest activity by MIWM, on January 19, 2020 at 3:29 PM
  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    Azazie has a lot of MOB options well under your mom's budget!

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  • Kelly
    Champion October 2018
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    My mom got her dress from Neiman Marcus!
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  • Gen
    Champion June 2019
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    My mom got her dress from Lord & Taylor hahaha. She also spent around $100 I think, so her budget was definitely much lower than yours (I'm guessing your wedding is much more formal than ours too haha) so I'm not suggesting Lord & Taylor necessarily, but I do think a department store is a great idea.

    Honestly neither she nor I were fans of the typical "mother of the bride" dresses that we found at bridal shops... she thought that all of them either made her look like "an old lady trying to look young" or just "a frumpy old lady" lmao. I do see where she was coming from (at least with the ones that she had tried on) that it seems there's not many "mother of the bride" options for middle aged moms. My mom is in her 50s and it really felt like all the choices were way too young for her, or way too old for her.

    So hence, the department store! Better options, AND the price tag goes down a lot when it doesn't have the word "wedding" in it. You go shopping at a bridal salon for a "mother of the bride dress" and the price is instantly doubled just because of its association with a wedding Smiley tongue

    Good luck! I hope she finds something she loves Smiley smile

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  • Samantha
    Dedicated April 2021
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    My mom is planning on checking out Nordstroms

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  • Kelsey
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    My mom found her dress at JCPenny, I agree with Gen to look in department stores. My mom actually found 2 dresses that she liked and ended up buying both of them because she couldn't decide. One of the dresses was on clearance for under 20 and the other was 45, I think, But we went to David's Bridal first to look and she hated everything she tried on. I think my mom was much more comfortable trying stuff on at the department store though.

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  • A
    Savvy August 2020
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    If you have a Neiman Marcus: Last Call in your area, you'll be able to find lots of great dresses that will stay under budget!


    Enjoy spending this special time with your mother!

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  • Caitlin
    Just Said Yes October 2021
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    Cool! yeah I feel like there's a lot of beautiful designer gowns that especially with sales aren't too bad on price. we'll check it out.

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  • Gen
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    Omg my mom did the same thing with buying 2 dresses! Hahaha. She ended up wearing the less formal one to our rehearsal dinner 😂
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  • Caitlin
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    Awesome, thanks! I think KOP Nordstroms has a wedding suite we may be able to look at!

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  • Caitlin
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    Never heard of, will take a look, thanks! do they have stores or just online? my mom wants to go in stores! lol

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  • Caitlin
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    L&T has good stuff, that's another more high-end department store we can check out, so thanks! agreed, we feel a lot of the typical MOB dresses are so old, and my mama's hot, no reason to make her look frumpy!

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  • Kelsey
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    I know I asked her if that meant I could have 2 dresses and decide on the day of, that got a hard no lol! My mom picked 2 vastly different ones. One is a bit more formal that I think she wants to wear to the wedding. I think she might be giving or selling the other one to my aunt/ godmother lol!

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  • Amber
    Master February 2020
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    It's only online, but I've never heard one negative thing about them! So many brides have gotten their bridesmaids dresses from there, I actually got my wedding dress from them, and they do FREE custom sizing. Worth a look in case your mom doesn't find something in stores!

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  • MIWM
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    Agnes Edmunds Pottstown PA

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