Hi all,
Hopefully this is the place for this. I am in need of some guidance. My parents will be paying for my wedding, which is SUPER appreciated. However, my mother feels since she is paying that I must do everything she says or it’s a fight and then some. One of my problems currently is that she does not want to allow an option for gifting money. My fiancé and I are already living together in a small space and have no need for gifts of household items and the such that is common at weddings/receptions. We were thinking it would be a great idea for money, to place in a savings and use when necessary but to my mother asking for money is an embarrassment and she will not have any part in it. I’m at a loss and stuck. I would love to know options and thoughts on how to approach this in a manner where it doesn’t seem to be asking for handouts and also how to approach my mother about this.