For a year now my mother has been planning to give me a large amount of money. She said it’s in case of an emergency a house or for my wedding. She said the money is only for me and not for my fiancé. She said in case something happens she wants to make sure that I have something for me. Now remind you I do not need the money I’m fine financial wise... She chose to give me this money out of the goodness of her heart, so I thought. Well today was the day she took me to the bank to deposit the cash into my account. After we drove home together I made a joke saying I was going to go get a boob job with the money she gave me then proceeded to say I would nvr do that that’s crazy... It was a stupid joke it meant nothing. Later on she calls me and tells me how that joke wasn’t funny and it hurt her feelings and how she worked hard for that money and I seem unappreciative. Which is untrue because all year I’ve been giving her really nice gifts and showing her how much I appreciate her... Something told me not to accept the money that she would throw it in my face later on but I decided to just accept it instead. Besides it’s not like I said I was going to go gamble the money away. Plus I’m her daughter.... I would think that she would want to do something nice for her only daughter who is getting married? It just hurts my feelings deeply and now I just want to give her the money back. Has this happen to anyone else before?
-Sad daughter.