So my wedding is late October 2022. My mother has requested that I push back my wedding by an hour, its the fall so that means that the sun will set around 5:59pm if our calculations are correct (and google). As of right now the ceremony is at 4 and reception follows right after (no cocktail hour). Its an outside wedding and the venue is a camping, hiking type style place from the park district and is set back into the property by like a mile. I would prefer not to push the wedding back because we are doing a DIY and have to tear down everything ourselves as well as we have about 15 guests who are all under the age of 10 so the later aspect is hard. We are wanting to do our photos before the wedding and then only the family pictures will be left in between. Anyways....
My mother wants me to push it back because my sister runs cross country she will be a (16) Junior that year and went all the way to state this year. Sectionals is already scheduled out for next year and it is the day of my wedding. This year on that date it rained and they pushed her meet back to 3pm instead of the usual 11am. She wants me to push it back so that in case it rains my sister is still able to attend her race as well as my wedding.
I understand that her race is important to her and I have been to almost every meet that she has run in since 6th grade. However i cant stop the tiny thought in my mind that my mother is actually asking me to push back my wedding for my sister.
Would it be a good idea to push it back or is it going to be too dark?
I just kinda feel like im being pushed around a little on this because we cant go a day when i see her without her asking.