So I thought I'd just get an opinion from you ladies on this situation.
As many of you may remember, I'm pregnant, and we are having major money issues. There is no way we would be able to afford the wedding we want without pushing it back at least a year.
When we told FH's grandparents about the baby, his grandpa's first reaction was "oh, so you're going to move up the wedding?" His boss apparently asked him the same thing. We were kind of like nooo actually we are pushing it back...
Obviously this isn't like the old times where you get all kinds of bad opinions if you have a baby and aren't married....but I'm just curious if anyone else has had people who are critical of situations like this.
We are also reluctant to tell FH's dad (obviously we will soon, but yeah) because FH is really unsure of how he will react. He thinks his dad will be on the "move up the wedding" side of things.
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