Long story short, this is my 2nd marriage and our wedding will be his first. I have 2 kids from my previous marriage. I did the big-ish traditional wedding and had the experience and don't want to take that away from FH. My FH is an only child and has a HUGE family from FL so if we do a wedding, it will be there. (We live in VA). My family is tiny so it's easier that way but makes planning a wedding so much harder.
Since we are paying for our wedding or whatever we end up doing, I'd rather elope and stay the course for saving for our dream house BUT I don't want to take anything away from my best friend's aka FH first and hopefully only wedding experience! He agrees with me that saving for a house is important but I can tell he wants to do all the wedding things (finding a venue, groomsmen, watching me walk down the aisle, reception/open bar etc.)
So..... anyone go through something similar and have any advice? Is there a good compromise that would make us both happy?
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