MY AUNT IS SLEEPING WITH MY EX

I don't see what would be upsetting about this other than a 6 am phone call. You dated for 6 months 16 years ago. I don't even talk to the guys I dated for 6 months from 3 years ago. And I wouldn't feel anything other than amusement if one of them dated someone I knew or am related to.

As for him and the wedding- absolutely not.

It is kind of gross and i can see getting up set if you dated the guy like a year ago but 16 years ago im with who ever said not worth the emotion and if it was me my FH would be pissed if i got upset over someone dating my ex

That's insane. I would be upset too. And then to have the nerve to ask to come to the wedding? Oh heck no! Don't feel bad for being upset. Work through your emotions and it'll be okay.

I must be really weird... but I don't see this as anything to be upset about, provided all of the following are true:

1. You sent your Aunt an invite with a plus 1 option

2. There wasn't something particulary awful about him (drugs, criminal record, etc) and it was just a normal breakup of young kids


3. Your Aunt didn't know who he was, and he didn't know who she was in relation to you

If she had an option to bring a guest, perhaps they didn't want to show up at the wedding together and throw you a loop, and wanted to make double sure that it was OK. If they are actually in a serious relationship, and there aren't still feelings for this guy on your end then I actually think it is a little bit rude of you to tell him NOT to come.

It wouldn't be the first time I appeared nuts though lol

And what the heck is up with WW adding line breaks when you edit a post with numbers in it

Pray for your aunt and him. That just confirmed they are drama that can have each other.

That is foolishness but like others have said it was so many years ago and you only dated for 6mos let that stay where its at. On to bigger and better things.

Didn't read your post, cause I really don't care. If you're on this site, it's because you're getting married. Keep that mellow drama where it belongs------------->Over there.

Don't clog up wedding planning boards with bullcrap about your ex and your auntie. In the grand scheme of things, only *YOU* give a damn.

I hope you don't take this the wrong way because in no way am I trying to offend, but before I actually read your entire post the first thought that popped into my head was JERRY, JERRY, JERRY!!! lol.

On a more serious note, I can understand why you would be upset. First I would be pissed that ANYONE would call me that early unless it wan an emergency. Also, you are absolutely right, he should NOT be invited to your wedding, the past is the past and it would make things awkward. Your aunt could live without him for 1 day.

Waiting for the day (nicole) Well stated

Wicked Lizzie, I'm just over all the dumb ass post on this site. SERIOUSLY, who gives a damn about an ex on a wedding website? An "aunt" should know better and if she doesn't take her ass off the guest list or take that bull to FB, Springer, or anywhere ignorant drama is welcomed. A complete waste of forum space.

@wicked lizzie..pretty sure I JUST read a thread were you commented something along the lines of "this is a public forum and I can post NWR if I wanna....blah blah blah"

@Misty H - I agree, maybe the aunt didn't realize they dated way back when and wanted him to come as her date...true, 6am is kinda awkward a time to find out...

Understand youre feelings....

I would be very upset as well. Tacky.