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June 2021

My baby urge is strong today!

Dj Tanner, on March 24, 2021 at 10:12 AM

Posted in Family and Relationships 28

Ughh we’re dying to get pregnant! But I know we have to wait until after the wedding! It’s only less than three months! There is no way I can get pregnant now! Especially the fact that I gave in and bought my dream Pronovias dress over the summer. It was more than I wanted to spend but it was...
Ughh we’re dying to get pregnant! But I know we have to wait until after the wedding! It’s only less than three months! There is no way I can get pregnant now! Especially the fact that I gave in and bought my dream Pronovias dress over the summer. It was more than I wanted to spend but it was definitely -the one-.


Hopefully, God willing, I can get pregnant right after the wedding. That would mean that our honeymoon to Disney would be an alcohol free, roller coaster ride free time, but it’s definitely a trade off than willing to make!
We were with my fiancé’s niece this past weekend and he’s just so great with her. I know he’s gonna be the best dad ever.
Is anyone else having a hard time fighting the urge of not getting pregnant before the wedding?
I guess I’m just looking for encouragement to hold out for less than three months and not get pregnant! I definitely want to drink on my wedding day!
Any words of encouragement about holding off until after the wedding would be greatly appreciated LOL

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  • D
    June 2021
    Dj Tanner ·
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    Absolutely agree! 5 years ago I did NOT want children.... like NOT WANT CHILDREN, haha But I did feel the pressure of age and not wanting to have a child too old if I did decide to have one down the road. I’m only 30 right now, but I would’ve never expected my mindset to drastically change within five years to the point where I am dying to be a mother now 😂. This is definitely a 100% go at your own pace type of thing. My FH has thankfully mirrored my feelings on this. Five years ago we were really not in any place to have a child. Things are so much easier now and money isn’t a challenge and we’re both so much more established in life than we were five years ago. I especially hate it when family members put pressure on individuals to have kids when they don’t want him.
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  • MK
    Expert September 2021
    MK ·
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    Totally understand this! I have friends who were ready for children at 21 and they are AMAZING parents, and I have some who are in their late twenties/early thirties who have no desire to have any. Both are more than okay! My fiancé and I talk about having kids one day and I like to think that we will be great parents, when we're ready! I respect people so much who go at their own speed with these kind of steps. I'm sure you will be a kick ass mom, especially seeing that you're truly ready!

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  • N
    Expert June 2021
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    We can encourage each other. My fiancé and I are also ready to have a baby and are just waiting till after the wedding in 71 days to start trying. The closer it gets the more excited we feel. Just put all your focus on getting your body ready pre-pregnancy. Vitamins, exercise, up water intake and a good ole doctors visit. I also see some sites that recommend starting folic acid 3 months prior to trying as well. So you can focus on those things and know that you are starting the process to having a family. You can do it! It’ll be ttc time before you even know it!
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  • Jules
    Dedicated October 2021
    Jules ·
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    This is a genius point! And enough to stop me! Hahah
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  • Elizabeth
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    Elizabeth ·
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    I want a baby so badly! Hoping for a honeymoon baby. I totally get you


    Should I not drink on my honeymoon if we are TTC? I hadn't thought of this, still a bit away for me
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  • Elizabeth
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    Agree with all of this. Definitely take this time to prepare your body for a baby. Folic acid stat!! Also just try to eat a cleaner diet. Healthy mom, healthy baby
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    June 2021
    Dj Tanner ·
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    They say that drinking shouldn’t affect TTC, but I don’t know I have my doubts Lol. If I’m not already pregnant by the time of my honeymoon, I’m definitely going to drink but I’m not going to get like plastered lol
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    June 2021
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    Yes! Ahh even the thought about changing my folic acid intake and eating a lot cleaner gets me excited! It’s like OK it’s time now haha
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