My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and recently moved in together. One of my best friends (for over a decade) is getting married in a few months. She recently told me that there's a strong possibility that I may not be able to bring my boyfriend because she has been receiving more RSVPs with a "YES" than originally planned. She mentioned that even it was really due to the size of her mom's family... and that even her own fiance had cut several of his close friends as her parents were the ones mainly footing the bill. To be fair, neither the bride and groom have met my boyfriend due to the fact that we live in a different city... but I know that her wedding will have 150-200 guests and don't see how room for one more isn't possible.
What's most upsetting about all of this is the following:
- she originally told me I could bring him and I got him all excited
- it's a destination wedding and I'm unemployed, it's a sacrifice to attend for my current budget
- she knows my boyfriend and I see a future together/are living together
I pride myself on being a good friend and can't imagine not going to support her. However, I can't seem to let go of the idea that my boyfriend won't be attending a wedding with me as she may not have any room... not to mention the fact that I'm sacrificing quite a bit to go while I'm not working (and haven't been for a few months now)...
Does anyone have any advice for me? Thoughts on going/not going?