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Just Said Yes January 2018

My boyfriend just bought me a fake engagement ring of $78

Dorah, on January 2, 2018 at 11:45 PM

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I am really confused and frustrated at the same time. My boyfriend and I have dated for two month. We are supposed to be married. He wants me to get pregnant before we get married and he wsnts it ASAP. I told him I need to find a job first or start my business so that I can work from home. I see red...
I am really confused and frustrated at the same time. My boyfriend and I have dated for two month. We are supposed to be married. He wants me to get pregnant before we get married and he wsnts it ASAP. I told him I need to find a job first or start my business so that I can work from home. I see red flags though.
1. He wants me pregnant before getting married
2. He bought me a fake diamond ring of $78 yet he bought his previous wife an engagement ring worth $10,000.
3. He wants me to be a house wife and a stay home mom and his dependant. So I would use his debit card if I need to buy something.
4. He will lend me money to put into my business and I will have to sign it upfront of a lawyer.
5. He is afraid that if my business starts making money the IRS will make him pay more money in taxes since he earns quite alot of money already.
I am so afraid he just doesn't love me but wants a baby.

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  • Jaclyne
    Dedicated August 2018
    Jaclyne ·
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    Get out while you can! the ring isn't the big issue. the big issue is that he is making excuses as to why he doesn't want you to succeed. Any man that loves a woman, wants to see their fw accomplish her goals. You need to consider things before you are stuck with him and everything doesn't work out. Best of luck.
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  • Rebecca
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    This is crazy... you have been dating for a few months yet you are already talking about babies and marriage? I think you need to slow down here. My engagement is 7x longer than your relationship.

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  • jnsangel4life
    Dedicated May 2018
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    EEWWWW NNNOOOOOO!!! Girlfriend!! Can you not see all those RED FLAGS flying right in your face??? I don't care how is telling you this is what he wants, or how cute it is or whatever ----- this is a man that is ALREADY trying to control you. He wants to help with this and with that - sure it sounds good, but I wouldn't fall for that wearing someone else's shoes. Get out girl. And get out QUICKLY!!

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  • GoodMOB
    April 2018
    GoodMOB ·
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    Dorah, I'd sure like to know what you've decided about all of this. A lot of things about your situation were concerning.

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  • Dillydilly
    Dedicated April 2018
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    I would like an update too - I hope to God she does not get pregnant and gets the hell out.

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  • PrincessLawrence
    VIP June 2018
    PrincessLawrence ·
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    UMMMM RUNNNNNNNNNNNN

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  • T
    Beginner May 2019
    Tyler ·
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    Dorah, you okay?
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  • Alyssa
    Master December 2019
    Alyssa ·
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    How old are you?

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