Hi everyone
So this is a stupid problem I’m having but I don’t like people telling me that my wedding is “my day”. It sounds so selfish and stuck up to me. However whenever I talk to my mom or my bridesmaids about it they say “you’re the bride, it’s your day. You should get everything you want”.
In my mind it’s me and my fiancé’s day. I always say it’s “our day”. Besides my, my moms, and the bridesmaids, dresses, we make the decisions together. My question for brides who are not used to being selfish or anything like that, how did you get over this?
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