My fiance asked me 2 months ago and hasn't announced it to his family or adult kids

View Quoted Comment I ended up texting his sister in law and she said his ex was very mean to him. But she said his brothers say he yells. As of now we are broken up and its was super painful earlier today but I also feel numb now. I feel I need support. This is very hard. He was even trying to change what year we get married to 2025 not 2024 when he asked me he said 2024. I don't want to wait for him anymore. We have been together 3.5 yrs and knew each other talking for 4 years and I waited for so many things he made me wait for. Its really hard to let go.

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It was a horrible toxic interaction. He yells and doesn't let me say my feelings. So he said he would tell them by end of June but isn't ready to tell them then I tried to ask when we get married and he tried to change it to 2025 not 2024 and I said I don't agree and won't wait anymore. As of now we are broken up. I don't see why he'd spend almost 10k on a ring and then be like this. Then said nasty stuff like you can shove the ring up your. I'm so upset I texted his sister in law about it and never do and she said his brothers say he yell. I need support right now this is super disappointing and hard. I waited for him so long already so many times. We have been together 3.5 yrs talking for 4 yrs.

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Then you have all your answers. Tell him he should prepare to find a new place within X time. Good luck to you.

View Quoted Comment Bottom line is he is verbally and emotionally abusive. That would not have changed. I’m sure this is difficult but you are doing the right thing. Best of luck to you.

View Quoted Comment Red flags everywhere. I hope you can find someone that doesn’t yell at you.