I am 24, Italian, I have been with my American fiancé, 26, for 3 1/2 years and a year ago he asked me to marry him. We are in a long-distance relationship, we met by chance when he was on vacation in Italy. Despite Covid we always managed to see each other every 3 months. All of a sudden, he broke up with me because he says I'm not religious ( he knew that way before he proposed) because he doesn't have a good career (he has a minimum wage job despite having a bachelor's degree) and because he's tired of being in a long-distance relationship, even though he loves me he wants to experience something different. I am devastated, he had convinced me to move to the U.S. when at first I didn't want to, we were going to do all the paperwork, I work here and have good money saved up, so I wasn’t going to be a burden. I even said that if the visa stuff is too complicated He could’ve come here to live and work at my dad’s company, but he refused. Suddenly the future I had envisioned for myself with him collapsed like a sand castle. He says he has to focus on himself first, but I can't accept this situation. Should I travel to the US to talk eye to eye or should I just move one without having seen him one last time? Last time we saw each other in may he dropped me at the airport crying saying that he loved me more than anything
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