My fiance cheated 5 weeks b4 wedding! Help

RUN as fast as your little legs can carry you and don't look back!

Sounds like he's not worth your time and that you just dodged a major bullet. You will find someone that deserves you.

I agree with the other two. Why would you want to go through with a lifelong commitment with someone that you don't even know you can trust anymore?

Oh wow that is awful. Sorry to hear about this whole thing. Hang in there:/

I'm so, so sorry! I can't imagine what your going through, but I've got to second Heather's comment. There's no way he didn't sleep with her, and if he does it once, he's likely to do it again Now, I believe that people can make a single mistake and learn from it, but if he's lying about it... I'm sorry that happened to you!

I have to agree with everyone else. Why waste time with him any more... Take time to heal, yes but don't waste any more time on him. Just be thankful you found out before the wedding!

You dodged a bullet finding this out before the wedding. I know it hurts hun but in time you'll see you're better off. I afree with PP RUN! Don't even bother talking to him. Get on with your life and know that you deserve more than a guy who can't "turn down an opportunity" What other offer will someone make that he can't turn down? He's literally telling you that he will only be as faithful as his options....RUN

Regardless of if he slept with her or not, he obviously tried to hide it from you. That alone is a HUGE red flag. Had you not found the nicely hidden evidence, would he have ever told you? Who cares what he says at this point about sleeping with her, he was not truthful and deceitful.

I agree with everyone run hunnie run no man should be doing that no matter thier feelings and he shouldnt have ask you to marrie him

Not worth the time it took you to write this post!!!! RUN

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So sorry he did this to you

I'm so sorry this happened... Hope you sort out what you need to.

@Unique- Well said! I agree 100%

I'm sorry you have been hurt. But it is better now than after the wedding. He is not worth your time and energy if he felt this is okay.

First i want to say that I'm sorry that you are going through this. Someone who will put you through that and then not fight to make it up to you is not worth it. You are a strong woman for standing up for what you believe in. Rely on your friends and family to get through this.

Know that you have a support system on here to for whatever we can do.

That must be really heartbreaking. =/ Im sorry you had to go through that but I think that his actions should leave no room in your mind to wonder what to do. Agree with the rest, run!

I agree with Heather, the question of whether or not he actually slept with her is irrelevant. What he did is cheating, and therefore is not worth your time. I can't imagine what you're going through, but can understand that its hard to cut off someone so important. However, he has defied your trust and played with your emotions and that is unacceptable for someone who you're going to spend your life with. You'll be so much better in the long run if you cut off ties for good. I'm so sorry you're going through this.

That is the ultimate betrayal in my eyes. there is no coming back 100% from that.. the trust will never be the same. I'm really sorry that you have to go through this - but it may be blessing in disquise when it comes to your future. I'd agree with the person before who said you dodged a bullet. You definatly do NOT need a man in your life who is even capable of doing such a thing, much less hiding it. If he wanted anyone else he should have been a man and ended things first. In my opinion, there is nothing lower than cheating. No excuses make it any better. Married yet or not - cheating is cheating regardless. you deserve better than that. so RUN! and move onto bigger and better things for yourself.

I agree with all these ladies you dodged a bullet right there. I know its hard to see any of this in a positive light but at least you found out now and not after you were married.He doesn't seem ready for marriage or a serious relationship. Im happy you had the balls ( sorry) to cancel the wedding instead of just going through with it because its already so close.Everyone deserves the respect they give and he clearly did not respect your or the relationship. His loss

Thank GOD you found out before the wedding. Sending you warm fuzzies. Hang in there and forget him.