My fiance cheated 5 weeks b4 wedding! Help

I know others have suggested that u can forgive which I think is possible too, but what I don't think is possible is to have the same security and romance that you had before you knew that he was in bed with another woman. If you get back together, those moments of intimacy and security will never be the same. You will be lying in his arms and suddenly a memory of him touching another woman's inner thigh or breast will pop into your head and you will feel pain. Things will never be the same if you stay.

HEY. I never said I changed who I was. I did not. I altered my boundaries. I have not changed who I am and I'm offended you've suggested that.

Hi all!! you are all so great. This has been the worst week/week and half of my life. I cry every day, I am sad allthe time. and my hopes and dreams were taken away from me without my control

BINX- is' fine that you told your FS , I love hearing the male point of view. I will keep you all posted ...............

Thanks again for the prayers

I agree with the rest of the girls. You do not deserve this, you deserve so much better. Keep your head up. Hopefully he will figure out what he mess up. I will keep you in my prayers

I hope all goes well with your future life ahead and im a very SORRY to hear wat has happend. nothing he says or does can heal your broken heart. its ashamed how men or woman have to betray there loved one keep your head up high and hold it time will pass. dont go back to someone that will hide and cheat and break your heart its NOT FAIR & not right at all much love to you and hope u make a great decision xoxo

I think that is horrible and I know if my fiancee did that I would leave him with no questions asked. You should think of this as a blessing... if that is the kind of man he is you would have ended up wanting a divorce anyways. Atleast you found out before you made a life-long commitment. The fact that he is getting mad you told people is also ridiculous he should atleast own up to his mistake. Anyways, good luck. I think cancelling everything was the right decision and you will find someone much better.

An honest open marriage is one thing. When someone lies and cheats, thats another. Saddens me that women are so easily led to change them selves and their beliefs to accomidate the whims of some men...for the sake of ' but i love them'...Do NOT settle for less than you deserve. Do it for yourself, your worth more.

You seem smart enough to call it off for now. You obviously deserve soooo much more!