Let me start off by saying he's been married twice before in the courthouse. He vetoed the elopement idea because he initially wanted a wedding. He says he doesn't understand why we have to plan things and why we can't just do it.
I've tried to explain to him that the reason we are planning is because vendors book fast and we need to know pricing and such. He says he doesn't understand why we have to invite a million people which we aren't. There's 40 people on the guest list including us and 24 of them are his guests.
I don't know what to do anymore. I've already got my dress. We have a venue, florist, the cake is taken care of and we were supposed to meet with a photographer next week. I don't understand what he's wanting other than he doesn't see what the big deal is with courthouse weddings. I've told him so many times that I will not get married in a courthouse for various personal reasons.
I just I'm at a loss of what to do now. I would appreciate any advice.
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