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Sheila
Savvy August 2015

My fiance just said he doesn't care about the wedding

Sheila, on July 8, 2015 at 5:34 PM

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We are just a month away from the wedding and I've done 90% of things. All he's had to worry about his him and his groomsmen, booking shuttles, a rental house for the afterparty, and music (that I had to initiate). I've voluntarily designed all stationery, decor and dealt with all other vendors....

We are just a month away from the wedding and I've done 90% of things. All he's had to worry about his him and his groomsmen, booking shuttles, a rental house for the afterparty, and music (that I had to initiate). I've voluntarily designed all stationery, decor and dealt with all other vendors.

Still I see him have plenty of downtime looking at nothing on the internet when there's some productive things to do including finalizing his outfit for the wedding. So it's been very frustrating. I have to set a to do list and schedule for him to do anything. Then he comes to saying bragging about how he's doing SO MUCH.

He blew up on me and straight up told me that he doesn't care about the wedding. No one cares but me.

Has anyone experienced this?

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  • StitchingBride
    Master October 2014
    StitchingBride ·
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    You said he blew up, he probably got angry, and said something he shouldn't. sounds to me that comparted to others, your groom is doing a lot. though I'm sure you're doing more.

    you've only got a month of all this left.

    I bet when you start down the aisle, he will care every bit about the wedding, and be a very proud groom.

    sounds like it was just a spat, I wouldn't worry about it too much for now. just do all you can to relax and make it the final stretch Smiley smile

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  • dks64
    June 2015
    dks64 ·
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    My husband did the same thing. He said it out of frustration and later apologized. Don't dwell on it, I'm sure he'll love the day.

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  • Summer Bride
    Devoted August 2015
    Summer Bride ·
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    Hi date twin! My FH is the same way, very other response from him is "you pick I like what you like." We even got into a big argument because I asked him about what kind of songs he wanted the dj to play! It could also nerves that the wedding is a month away.

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  • Matt and Perri
    Beginner September 2020
    Matt and Perri ·
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    My Future hubby made it very clear he doesnt care about the details of the wedding he cares about the cost of everything. I want him to care as much as I do but I know he won't and honestly that hurts.
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  • nikki
    Beginner October 2018
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    My Fiance could care less, he would of rather Eloped then have a wedding. Were only having 75 guests.. Geez... He just wants to know how much it is. He waited till the last minute to get his suit when I have asked him for months. Getting him to reach out to some of his guests was like pulling teeth. So Yes, you are not alone. The wedding is for the Bride, then Groom just know he has to show up or else...Hahah!!

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  • nikki
    Beginner October 2018
    nikki ·
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    My Fiance could care less, he would of rather Eloped then have a wedding. Were only having 75 guests.. Geez... He just wants to know how much it is. He waited till the last minute to get his suit when I have asked him for months. Getting him to reach out to some of his guests was like pulling teeth. So Yes, you are not alone. The wedding is for the Bride, then Groom just know he has to show up or else...Hahah!!

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