My brother announced his wedding date after her close friends bridal shower was announced. But I assumed a bridal shower is not as major of a deal as a wedding especially of my brother whom I am extremely close to.
Is it too pushy of me to be twisting my fiancés arm into going to the wedding? I don’t want there to be any bad feelings with my brother and his wife to be, he can be picky and sensitive. Also in my family, family always comes first no matter what so there will be a lot of questionable thoughts on her being inconsiderate for missing the wedding for bridal shower. How do I convince her or come to terms that she is missing a major event for our family?
I don’t mind flying to see her friend any other day; we are going international and spending a lot of money to go her wedding whom I never met because it means a lot to my fiancé.
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