My fiance was not invited

You don't cut out people's FI. Nope especially if they commit their life to a person

If you want to go and can afford it, do.

I wonder if the fiance thing was an oversight. I did the invitations and I messed up on not giving someone a "plus-one" on my husband's side because I didn't know he was dating someone. My husband never told me.

She included a gift registry card in the invite and you think she knows about etiquette? I wouldn't go this close to your wedding OR call your aunt and ask for crepes sake.

Etiquette says she should definitely have invited your FH, since she didn't though I think you just decide if you do or don't want to go. If you don't go I'd send a little gift, especially because she's family. You just have to do what you're most comfortable with.

I would think she should invite him that is really odd..

That is extremely rude and against etiquette. If I was you there is no way I would go not only his the few weeks leading up to your wedding going to be busy but I would go solely because I would be made that he wasn't invited. Send a nice card with a check in it and call it a day.

I don't think it was an oversight since I just had a shower recently and she/her mom and sister sent a gift.

I would be petty. RSVP yes and then not go.

That happened to us this week as well! I messaged my other cousin and said I wasn't even given a plus one. She reached out to the bride (even though I told her not to) and told her. The bride reached out and apologized. She said it was a mistake that and guest was not written on the envelope and of course FW was invited.

I'm not saying that's what happened in your case, but it is a possibility. Reach out and confirm that just you were invited. Make it seem like that's OK, that you just want to confirm. May make it awkward for a bit, but she is in the wrong. She should have invited him per etiquette.

I would call her and ask her if there was a mistake about your FH not being addressed in the invite, if she says at that point that he is not invited then decline. You are a social unit, he is not a "plus 1", he should have been invited by name. She is in the wrong and very rude.

I would suggest you call for clarification. sometimes people assume you "know" things or details that need to be more specific. I think it may be a misunderstanding or a mistake to be honest.

My cousin invited me to his wedding but didn't list my FH on the invite. I texted him and asked if FH could come if we could make it? He said "of course!" Um ok why didn't you invite him then?

I would reach out to her and clarify as another gal said it could be that she just didn't research what your future husbands name was and did not write on the envelope? (I know that she should have but?)

How many seats do they have reserved for you

Um WHo said it was a mistake?

oh ONE person did.

Could you talk to her about this? Maybe it was a simple oversight?

I'd like to believe she's not being rude. I might reach out to someone close to her but maybe not necessarily her-a sister, mother, someone like that and make sure it's not just an oversight. I left someone's SO off the guest list because I haven't seen them in a while and forgot they were engaged. The whole time I've known him (until very recently) he was single.

Hopefully an oversight!

@FutureMrsRomines - Let me clarify. You and your FH/H/FW/W are a Social Unit with you, you are to be invited together, by name to events. Mr. Joe Blow and Ms. Jane Fox.

When it comes to families, if they are addressed as the former, then it can be assumed only the parents are invited. If it is addressed either, Mr. and Mrs. Joe Blow and Family or

Mr. and Mrs. Joe Blow

Jack Blow

Janie Blow

Then the assumption is the entire family is invited.

ETF: It's Friday and Grammar is not my thing

Ugh, I'm so over this 'etiquette, they should have KNOWN and they have DIRELY INSULTED ME NOW' bs. Just pick up the phone and call your cousin.

I would clarify. He definitely should have been invited.