So my cousin is getting married 2 weeks (13 days really) before me. We haven't seen each other in years, but we congratulated each other and made sure we didn't book the same day. She did not send STDs, I did (addressed to her and her fiance). On her invitation my fiance was not invited. Of the 14 cousins I am the only one engaged/married other than her sister. She worked as a hotel events planner so I assume she knows the proper etiquette of who to address it to and everything. When I asked my parents they noted (probably guessed) it was a number issue.... Am I wrong thinking etiquette says she should've invited him? or is that indeed an okay place to cut? I'm starting to rethink MY guest list now if so....
Then should I go or send a gift? Flight out there is affordable, but idk if it would be a good idea to go two weeks before the wedding... An enclosed gift registry card stated that they only request the gift of your presence. I'm thinking about taking it at face value.
