My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am - true or false?

TRUE, and it's the worst! LOL I never expected him to have so many opinions on everything. Planning this wedding has been a real lesson in compromise for both us.

False! His favorite line is “Whatever you want!”

Hes not as involved, but he has been a huge help. More than other fiancés (from what my friends have told me).

False? He is somewhat involved. He has a say and an input on the important things, like which venue he likes most. We divided two important tasks. He is a musician and I am an artist. Therefore, his area is finding the proper DJ/band, and mine is anything involving stationary, i.e., invitations, thank yous, etc.

False! He helps me with ideas and some planning, but he says its whatever i want!

Ha. haha. No. False. He's tired of talking about it already. lol It's a shame that we have over a year still!

False. He definitely has had a say in things, but usually I give him a few options and we agree on one. He always says he wants this to be a dream day for me, but I still want his opinions on things.

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His one task was picking up his tux. He actually did it

False, he is involved somewhat but mostly it is me.

False! He gives his opinion every once in awhile AFTER I mention something to him but never because he has an idea.

False. I do most of the planning and scheduling. But before I make a decision, I get his input and make sure he is on board with all my choices.

Definitely true! We are a team and this is about the both of us so absolutely he is involved in every decision. He is actually really the creative one also so he's probably going to be the one to take over decorations.

False. If I ask his opinion I can get it, but I don't think he will be fully invested until it gets closer. We still have 13 months

False. I plan, I run the plan by him, he tells me if he approves. The most involved he's been was when designing our wedding cake and finding a photographer.

True-ish, lol He comes to everything, except the flowers and when I get ready to order things or plan things he will give his thoughts on it. He picked our STD, and Cake Topper, and Invites which I am in love with them all.

True! I was diagnosed with a brain tumor 3 months ago and he has been a big help!

HA! I wish it was true. He gave his opinion when it really mattered to him, but overall this was false. I did make sure to ask him his opinion and if he wanted to help with things.

True and false FH is only inputs when he needs to more about the groom's stuff but all brides stuff he dont want to know until the wedding

SOOOOO False lol

I am absolutely the lead in that department. I run everything by him before paying for it and I've asked for his opinion on most things, he just doesn't care as much so it doesn't matter. But I am definitely more involved

Yeah right my fiance is hardly ever in the planning of this wedding the main part he likes is the music along with the food anything else it's all my idea but he always wants me to put other people opinion in the wedding I just tell him it's not about them it's about us if you're not going to do then it's all about me