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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am - true or false?

Lynnie, on August 27, 2019 at 11:39 AM

Posted in Planning 184

Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved? "My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false? Next Question: Finding my wedding vendors has been easy Back to the Beginning: True or False?

Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved?

"My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false?


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Next Question: Finding my wedding vendors has been easy

Back to the Beginning: True or False?

184 Comments

  • Rachel
    Beginner July 2020
    Rachel ·
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    False. He's there when I really need something, but it is my future MIL and I doing most of the planning.
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  • Allycia
    Dedicated March 2020
    Allycia ·
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    Very true he help alot
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  • Sarah Monroe
    Just Said Yes February 2020
    Sarah Monroe ·
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    True! Sometimes he needs to know what I want him to do but he’s always happy to spend time with me planning or calling vendors without me.
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  • lalalulu
    Beginner September 2020
    lalalulu ·
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    False! I plan obsessively and he rarely thinks about it haha.

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  • Sarah
    Dedicated May 2021
    Sarah ·
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    False-ish. He has a lot of strong opinions, but my parents and I have the final say.

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  • Rachel
    Dedicated October 2019
    Rachel ·
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    False, he is involved when I ask for his help.
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  • Haleigh
    Beginner September 2021
    Haleigh ·
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    False. All he cares about is the food and drink part of the planning. I’ve done almost all of it.
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  • Ariel
    Dedicated June 2022
    Ariel ·
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    False! But we are definitely planning our honeymoon together!
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  • Erin
    Expert May 2020
    Erin ·
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    False lol he doesn't care!

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  • Yolanda
    Dedicated July 2021
    Yolanda ·
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    True, it's his wedding too.

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  • Mrscolón
    Super September 2019
    Mrscolón ·
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    FALSE. It is like pulling teeth sometimes when it comes to wedding planning with him lol he says "guys don't plan weddings like girls do". He does give input where it is needed, like the groomsmen attire, food, cake, music

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  • Dee
    Savvy October 2020
    Dee ·
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    Yes my fiance is involved alot with the planning
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  • Courtney
    Savvy September 2021
    Courtney ·
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    I feel that my fiance isn't as involved as if I am going in and reading everything and looking on the internet and googling everything. Literally. I have to make him help me, but when he does have spikes of helpfulness- he seems to find exactly what I like.

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    He is involved, but as he like to say, “I’m/She’s a Planner”. I plan everything, even Grocery shopping.
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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    Correction: likes to say...
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  • Heather
    Expert April 2020
    Heather ·
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    False. He's really only doing the men's outfits, invitations, and picking the flowers (I have to find florists and schedule consultations though Smiley xd ).

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  • Kellie
    Dedicated June 2020
    Kellie ·
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    True. We’ve planned everything together.
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  • Aleaj
    Expert October 2019
    Aleaj ·
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    False, only when i ask!
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  • Jazmine
    Expert September 2019
    Jazmine ·
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    Ohhhhh false lol
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  • Valentina
    Devoted September 2019
    Valentina ·
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    False. Me and my bridesmaids have done all the planning
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