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Lynnie
WeddingWire Administrator October 2016

My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am - true or false?

Lynnie, on August 27, 2019 at 11:39 AM

Posted in Planning 184

Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved? "My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false? Next Question: Finding my wedding vendors has been easy Back to the Beginning: True or False?

Has your fiancé(e) been carrying the weight evenly when it comes to wedding planning? Or are they not quite as involved?

"My fiancé(e) is as involved in planning as I am" - true or false?


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Back to the Beginning: True or False?

184 Comments

  • Elaine
    Savvy September 2021
    Elaine ·
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    VERY TRUE! My fiancé knows a lot of people and is very well connected and he’s quite charming. So it comes in handy- a lot!
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  • Samantha
    Expert October 2019
    Samantha ·
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    False! He has barely been involved with any of the planning. He helped me pick out a couple of songs and his and the groomsmen tuxes.
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  • Macy
    Expert September 2019
    Macy ·
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    False. He’s had a few ideas, and I run all ideas by him and he tells me yes or no. But it’s mainly just my wedding and he happens to be the groom 😂
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  • Martika
    Expert September 2019
    Martika ·
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    False. I have done most of the planning. If it's something big I'll run it past him before I make any decisions. He has gone to every major meeting we have had. I included him in all emails, so he knows what is going on

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  • Katelyn
    Just Said Yes November 2020
    Katelyn ·
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    My fiance and I make all decisions together and he definitely considers it "our wedding". For venues, I found several and we reviewed them together then both had a favorite. We also picked out our website together. Smiley smile
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  • Miranda
    Dedicated September 2020
    Miranda ·
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    Hah not even close

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  • Shenika
    Just Said Yes September 2020
    Shenika ·
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    My partner try to be helpful when he can.

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  • Tracy
    Dedicated August 2020
    Tracy ·
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    False, it's about 70% me and 30% him when it comes to planning.

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  • Mrs. Bubba
    VIP September 2019
    Mrs. Bubba ·
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    There have been somethings that he wanted and some that he put his 👣 down on.

    I’m glad that it’ll be over on Saturday.

    You all 🙏 that I don’t make the local or national news.

    People really have tried my patience this last year.
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  • Marquita
    Dedicated January 2020
    Marquita ·
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    True!! He’s the only reason we’re doing everything we’re doing because if it was up to me we would have a small private wedding somewhere away with just parents, siblings, and very close friends. It’s kind of annoying at times but it makes him happy.
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  • Arielle
    Expert August 2020
    Arielle ·
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    False. When asked, he will provide input. He's also been really involved with the music selections, but for the most part it's been mostly me and I'm totally okay with that.

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  • Andrea
    Devoted October 2020
    Andrea ·
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    Yes and no. He's in charge of the venue as far as scheduling tours and where. Everything else we are 100/100 on. I am in charge of anything online

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  • Riley
    Expert September 2020
    Riley ·
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    False. H does not care.

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  • Brianna
    Devoted April 2025
    Brianna ·
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    Faaaaaaaalse. Haha that's okay though. As a woman I think we get more excited than our man. I constantly think about my wedding and it drives my fiancè crazy sometimes 😂
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  • Jessica
    Expert February 2020
    Jessica ·
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    False, but he is helping when I asked without seeming annoyed which is nice. It appears that he really does have some preferences on things which helps when I can't decide.

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    Savvy October 2022
    Destiny ·
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    SO FALSE!!!! He could care less about planning and just wants to buy the rings and be told when and where to show up and have his clothes picked out and waiting for him.
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    Savvy October 2022
    Destiny ·
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    I feel like that’s how it is for a lot of people
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  • Just Us Two
    Dedicated May 2021
    Just Us Two ·
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    My fiancee is very involved in planning our special day because it's about both of us, not just me.
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  • Ashley
    Super November 2020
    Ashley ·
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    Not really. I do all the research and whatnot and he gives the thumbs up and thumbs down. He's starting to get into it a bit more, but he's definitely helpful!

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  • Mikayla
    Dedicated May 2021
    Mikayla ·
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    False, only because he is away for school and I live where our venues are located.

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