My friend skipped my wedding and never told me she wouldn’t make it.

Just venting...I’ve been friends with this woman for 10 years. When I first met my husband she’d always ask when the wedding would be. About every six months for four years she’d ask if we had set a date. Well when we finally set a date she was the first person I told because she had asked so much. She seemed excited,she was sending me decor ideas and all. A couple weeks before the wedding she mentions how excited she is. She didn’t attend the bridal or bachelorette. She told me she already made other plans and I understood that. Then I remember the week of the wedding that I did not send her an invitation but I had spoken to her and she knew I was expecting to see her the day of the wedding . A mutual friend told me she would be on a trip the day of my wedding. She never mentioned that she wouldn’t make it to my wedding or anything. So I called her the next day. No answer. I texted,she read it. Posted pictures of her trip, that’s it. So I guess it’s safe to say that friendship is over. What friend knows the entire time they can’t attend the wedding but won’t speak up. One thing’s for sure, you find out who your real friends are especially when you’re planning your wedding.