I've ranted about her on here before but I swear I'm going to lose my absolute mind on this girl.
So she forced her way into my wedding party anyways. She and I were not friends when I made my selections. Neither I nor my fiance chose family members (I'm very close with my brothers and would've loved them to be groomsmen, but I didn't ask him to do that). About three and a half months ago, I believe, she called my fiance and went on a tirade about how she was upset that she wasn't a bridesmaid and how that's going to make her look bad to their family...? I wanted to try and save the relationship so I caved. We added my two brothers as groomsmen, bumped my Jr Bridesmaid up to a regular bridesmaid, and added SIL.
I've only asked her to help with one thing: coordinating some equipment pickup. And that's only because we're borrowing the equipment from her fiance's mother. And she refused to help with that.
Flash forward to my bachelorette party weekend. My MOH checked in with everyone on the day of the party and SIL confirmed that she'd be there. And guess who never showed up. Then the next day was my bridal shower. She texts me like two hours before the party saying she can't make it because her fiance is going to a fantasy football draft so she has to watch the kids. My party date had been set for a year. She knew. And there's no way that they didn't know in advance about the fantasy football thing. She was like "we'll bring your gift by though!" It's been a month and no gift -- which honestly I don't even want. I wanted her to meet my family and get to know my friends. Make an effort.
Then this morning. I texted her asking if her kids were staying for the reception as I'm working on the seating chart. They're all slated to be flower girls/ring bearers. Her response was "they're not going to be there at all that day." I was like oh...so are they not going to be in the wedding then? Her response was that she had never heard from me so she assumed that we didn't want them. I've literally had multiple conversations with her about this. In person. My fiance has talked to her about this. It was part of her complaint about her not being a bridesmaid. I swear to everything holy, I cannot stand this girl. There are 29 days until my wedding and she is pulling this crap.
Just needed to rant. And confirm that I'm not crazy.
