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OG Kristen
Master October 2015

My grandpa is dying....

OG Kristen, on July 6, 2015 at 11:32 AM Posted in Planning 0 15

This past weekend has been horrible. My grandpa has had Parkinson's for years and has slowly been deteriorating. He's been in a nursing home, but other than his physical ailments there was nothing else wrong with him. Two weeks ago he got pneumonia and fought it. He had his last round of antibiotics last week and my grandma went to visit my uncle in Chicago. Yesterday the pneumonia came back and we were told that he may not make it through the day. We rushed to get my grandma on the next flight home. I went in and said my goodbyes. He made it through the night, but it's just a matter of waiting at this point. They aren't giving him any more food or fluids. I'm devastated to say the least. I don't even know what else to say about it. It kills me that he won't see me get married. He saw me in my wedding dress last month and told me how beautiful I looked. I'll never ever forget that moment.

15 Comments

Latest activity by JS081615, on July 6, 2015 at 11:45 AM
  • Laura
    Master October 2015
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    I am so, so sorry KW. This is so hard for you and the family. It's really good that you got to say goodbye. You will be in my thoughts and I'm sending lots of love and light your way.

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  • Beth
    Master May 2015
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    I don't have any words of wisdom for you, but here is a hug. Smiley sad

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  • Ashley & Justin
    Devoted September 2015
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    I'm so sorry to hear that you're going through this, especially so close to your wedding... Losing a loved one is never easy, but the sting is a bit worse when you already have the stress of a wedding and the thoughts of how you wish they would be able to be there with you to celebrate. Again, so sorry!

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  • Missys984
    Master October 2015
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    So sorry you are going through this! Its so hard to lose loved ones. Thinking of you and your family and sending you lots of hugs!!

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  • Mrs. Lav
    Master November 2015
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    Hang in there! So glad he got to see you in your dress. *hugs*

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  • Andrea
    VIP September 2015
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    So sorry you are going through this.

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  • AG13
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    My great aunt just passed away with parkinsons. It is a horrible horrible disease. Prayers for your family.

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  • OriginalKD
    Master December 2015
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    I am so sorry. We are here for you and I will be keeping your family in my prayers.

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  • Kris E
    VIP May 2015
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    I am so sorry. I'll be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers during this tough time.

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  • Emily O.
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    I am so sorry this is happening. I will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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  • Jacqui76
    Master May 2016
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    KW, so very sorry. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. I'm glad he got to see you in your dress.

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  • Promike
    Master September 2015
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    So sorry! I am so glad he got to see you in your dress though. I don't have either of my grandparents around anymore so I know it is tough....hang in there!

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  • Future Mrs. Pryor
    Expert October 2016
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    Aww my heart aches for you *hugs*

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  • Original VC
    Master July 2015
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    I'm so sorry Smiley sad sending you my thoughts. Sending you hugs through this difficult time!

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  • JS081615
    Super August 2015
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    I am so sorry Smiley sad I lost both of my grandfathers back in February and early March (three weeks apart) and the thought of them not being at my wedding absolutely killed me, but I know that they will be there in spirit. My one grandfather had actually just talked to me when he was in the hospital about dancing with me at my wedding, and now he won't be there to do it. Just keep his memory alive and keep your head up - you will get through this! Sending hugs and positive thoughts to you and your family <3

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