Hi. I decided to join this forum because I need a second opinion regarding a problem I'm having.
I've been married to my husband for almost 4 years and when we dated he had a few female friends. I was okay with it because he knew them before we met. On our first year of marriage he started this "pattern" that I didn't like. Basically every time he added new woman on Facebook that he just met in person for whatever reason, he would start messaging that woman on the chat window. He did this with every new woman he added! Even with women who were married or in a relationship. So he tries to get to know these women and he's the one who always initiates the conversations.
I told him I didn't like it and he said it was normal for him to talk to people and have friends. I agree but why would a married man want a close friendship with the opposite sex? Because it's not once or twice that he messages them but frequently and to several women!!! How can it be normal?
I took him to counseling and he said he was going to stop but after a couple of months now he started doing it again. He added a female co worker on Facebook. She has a boyfriend and my husband messages her and she messages back as if it's not a big deal.
I want to know if I'm right to feel disrespected or I'm exaggerating. I'm not saying he can't have friends but why does he go out of his way to send them messages? I guess I'm not that special that he wants to talk to other women. I'm a person with morals and I don't want to start a family like this. I can't picture myself being pregnant while he chats with his female friends and continues this pattern of meeting new women.
What do you think about this?
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