My mom and I don't have a close relationship. She basically left me w/ my maternal grandparents before I was 2.
Now at 26, I'm engaged to the man I love. We've been in an LDR for the last 3 yrs & he's planning to move to where I live next yr.
She's always disapproved of my choices in men. Realizing that her only child is getting married, she's been grilling me so much about my fiancé's life. She even told me I'm not allowed to marry him if he doesn't have a high school diploma or a GED. He has a GED and she wants proof of it. *sigh* I told her that my love for him and vice versa should be all that matters. She says that's not good enough.
It's come to the point where I wish I never told her of my engagement. I also wish I could just elope, but this wedding is a big deal for myself and my family, considering I'm the 1st of the grandkids to tie he knot. How do I survive the next year or two planning this wedding let alone have my mom back off?