It is still over a year until we plan to marry but even the most basic questions like venue, dress etc. my mother is negative about...one day she promises to pay for whatever I want and the next she says that since she just had a couple candleabras and made her own dress that I shouldn't expect anything else... Which is very frustrating because my parents have always promised to pay for my wedding so long as i graduated college first. I have tried to wrestle a budget out of them since we got engaged 8 months ago and they will not give me any idea what they want to spend.My fiance and I want to buy a house soon, and won't be able to afford a wedding alone... Should we elope? What can we do?? I am really starting to resent my mother for the way she is handling this...Please help!!!
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