My fiancé and I have always known we want to get married in San Luis Obispo, CA (we currently live in Los Angeles) because that's where we both went to college & it's an extremely special, important place in our hearts -- perfect for tying the knot & bringing our love story full circle!
However, my parents (who are largely paying for the wedding), aren't fully on board with this and keep trying to push us to get married in Orange County, where they live, instead. Their argument is that Orange County will be an "easier" location, but I think they just don't want to deal with the slight distance of SLO and/or are more concerned with some of their friends being able to attend than they are with what we want for our special day.
We've only been engaged 2 months and haven't even chosen a venue yet, but this issue has already become a heated topic of discussion & is causing rifts between us.
For some added context, my parents are pretty closed-minded people and historically haven't been very flexible or open things that are outside of what THEY feel is the "traditional" way to do things -- so you can imagine how planning a wedding is going. I'm incredibly independent but have always tried to please them and appease their guilt my entire life, and given that this is my wedding, the most important & special day of my life, I'm incredibly frustrated and disappointed that they can't seem to be supportive with what my fiancé and I want to do.
Has anyone experienced this, or something similar? Any advise or tips are very welcome!! 🙏