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Tineshia
Dedicated December 2022

My Photographer Kinda Let Me Down

Tineshia, on June 28, 2022 at 11:14 AM Posted in Community Conversations 0 21
Hey…. I’m back again for some advice, help or something. So, our current photographer, who we are using for our wedding, did a complimentary engagement shoot for us. I specifically stated how I wanted our vision. It took him a month to edit pictures and I HATE THEM!!! Even my fiancée doesn’t like them. So, I feel like we’re too late in the game to switch photographers (wedding is in December). How do I go about making sure he’s able to come through with what I like and want on wedding day? Yes, we’ve done consultations and I’ve seen his work. His work is what got us to go with him. So at this point, I’m kinda stressing. I feel like, he’s not putting forth the effort. Then again, I could be wrong and just making a big deal out of it.

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Latest activity by Tineshia, on June 30, 2022 at 11:48 AM
  • Lisa
    Rockstar July 2022
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    It's not necessarily too late to switch if you truly don't like his work! If you're OK with losing your deposit, I would start searching for another photographer now. Otherwise, talk to him about specifically what you don't like (the poses? the editing style? the camera angles?), show him examples of photos that you do like, and then schedule another engagement shoot to give him a chance to take photos that you are happier with.
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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    Definitely say if you don’t like his work to go with someone else. Maybe he was having an off day and that’s the reason the pictures didn’t turn out as you’d like them to. I know you’d hate to keep him and you both are upset with your wedding photos. I agree with Lisa, maybe ask for another session and see how that works out before finding another photographer.
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  • Tineshia
    Dedicated December 2022
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    Thank you!! So we have another consultation in July. I will lay everything out on the line. That’s a good idea to ask for another engagement session, after our discussion. Before our session, I specifically told him what our vision was, and he basically kept pushing us to take the pictures, where he wanted to take them. That should have been a red flag 🚩 then!!
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  • Tineshia
    Dedicated December 2022
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    Imani, yes I will definitely ask for a redo. Thanks. We’ve already fired one photographer, way back in the beginning. I feel bad to keeping firing folks.
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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    Where are you finding these people?
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  • Tineshia
    Dedicated December 2022
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    Imani, from recommendations from others who have had weddings. Again, their pictures are pretty. I’m just not understanding, why ours look the way they do. Now, the first photographer, had a lot going on and didn’t even have us written down. So she totally forgot it was engagement session and we were rushed. So, I let her go.
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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    Oh I got you! Where are you located?
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  • Tineshia
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    Imani, I am south of Atlanta.
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  • Paige
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    Is the issue something that could be fixed (location, editing, etc.), was out of the photographer's control (other people in the area, weather, etc.), or is it something where the photographer's skill just didn't measure up (posing choices, camera angles, etc.)? If it's an easy fix then I'd say to discuss it and see if there's a way you could either redo the session or make sure the issue doesn't happen during the wedding. If the issue is with the photographer themself, then I'd say it wouldn't hurt to look into someone else. The timing isn't impossible, but you'll want to get on it ASAP.

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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    Okay, how far are you from Mableton? Our family friend lives there and if it doesn’t work out I can connect you with another photographer.
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  • Tineshia
    Dedicated December 2022
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    Paige, it was the location, angles, poses and editing. I wanted an inside session, but he insisted we have it at Piedmont Park at 6pm. So it’s hot for one, in Georgia and the shots he took, I didn’t like the background. I’m not familiar with Piedmont Park, so I really couldn’t tell him where to go etc. so I left it up to him. I took one of the pictures and edited it myself, and showed my folks and they all said my picture looked better than his. So… I don’t know. I have started looking for other photographers, as well.
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  • Tineshia
    Dedicated December 2022
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    Imani, the location of our wedding is like an hour and half… maybe 2, from Mableton. That’s a little drive.
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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    Oh okay, gotcha. Here is two photographers, I’m not sure exactly where they’re located in Atlanta, but he did our family friend album cover and was reasonable. In case you need another option.My Photographer Kinda Let Me Down 1
    My Photographer Kinda Let Me Down 2


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  • Tineshia
    Dedicated December 2022
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    OMG! Thank you so much Imani. I will take at look at them.
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  • Imani
    Master July 2022
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    You are most welcome! I hope it works out!
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  • Paige
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    Lol I actually got engaged in Piedmont Park! It's a pretty spot, but this time of the year in GA is definitely rough for outdoor photo sessions. If you don't mind me asking, who did your photos? I could try to dig up my list of potential photographers if you'd like.

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  • Tineshia
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    Paige, I know it. It was way to hot and some of the pictures you can tell my fiancé was hot and bothered. Lol. So yeah we need redo. His name is Darryl Ogletree. He did our pictures. If you don’t mind sending me some recommendations, that will be great! Thanks!!
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  • Paige
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    We booked Paul Patrick Films, and I was super pleased with how our pictures turned out! The weather was iffy the day we did them, and I felt like my hair was blowing in my face the whole time, but the pictures all ended up great (or they just didn't send the ones where my hair was a mess lol). They also do videography if that's something you're interested in. We had also looked at Nicole Sandercock and Hillary Leah Photography.

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  • Tineshia
    Dedicated December 2022
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    Thank you. My photographer shouldn’t have sent the ones where my fiancé looked crazy lol. I think that’s what bothers him the most. So I will definitely take a look at these photographers. Thank you.
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  • Kari
    Master May 2020
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    Your engagement shoot is an opportunity to see how good of a fit the photographer is for you (and vise versa). If you were clear about what you wanted from the engagement shoot and are not happy with the product you were delivered, its unlikely you are going to see a 180 for the wedding. I would definitely start to consider other photographers.

    It is totally appropriate to discuss your disappointment with the photographer. Their response may determine how you want to proceed. If they don't appear sympathetic to you at all, then I would find someone else and absolutely not use them for your wedding. If they feel there was a miscommunication in expectations and want to make it right, you might consider what each of you can do to support one another in getting the best photos of your wedding. If your photographer truly wants to keep you as a client, they might even offer you a complimentary reshoot of your engagement session to prove to you that they can take the photos you want.

    If I were in your shoes, I'd start looking at other options but reach out to the photographer, express my disappointment, and determine how to move forward based on their response. I would not hesitate to find a new photographer for the wedding if necessary. There's a chance this photographer/client relationship is salvageable based on how they respond, but don't be lured by empty promises or if they don't seem concerned about you not being happy with your engagement shoot. Unless you feel entirely confident that you can work together and they can deliver for your wedding, find someone else.

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