So I asked my sister to be a bridesmaid thinking that she would be OK wearing a dress for 4 to 6 hours (given that she’s wore a dress at her wedding and other people’s weddings before..) and turns out she doesn’t wanna wear a dress.. she wants my mom to order her a pantsuit for my wedding. I really don’t like that idea because A. I told my step niece/ one of my closest friends that I didn’t ask her to be a bridesmaid because I know she doesn’t like dresses. And B. I really feel like it’s gonna stick out too much in my actual wedding ceremony and the photos.
Personally I feel like the attention should be on me and my groom and not my sister in a pantsuit....
I don’t know if I’m just being picky and selfish or if I have a right to feel like I should be able to have my wedding look the way I want it to look. If you’re agreeing to be in wedding then you’re agreeing to wear what the bride wants you to wear.. if you don’t want to wear that then wear what you want but don’t be in the wedding party. Let someone else have the chance to wear a pretty bridesmaid dress.
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