My fiancé and I getting married this year and we trimmed our guests from 200 to 100. We did our homework who to invite, asked advise to married couples and so on. We are strong believers and we stand firm on that. So, my 2 siblings have their significant more than years now, basically my fiancé and I have established relationships with them and they are part of our guest list.
On the other hand, my sister insisting her plus one that we don’t know and haven’t met, let alone they exclusive, just seeing/ hanging out. Not even dating dating. We told her that we won’t invite anyone we don’t know, we only consider committed relationship and the people that are also show interest in our life not just on our wedding day.
My mom is on her side, telling me I should have her +1 because it’s one time - I told them this is also a one time a lifetime decision I’m making for myself and for my fiancé- they don’t get my point. To make a decision where we both happy and supported. Fiancé and I had a fair compromise with our decisions that made us content throughout the planning.However my sister is pushing and even says will not attend our wedding because we did not give her +1. I thought that her +1 is more important than us or our decision. Only two of us fund our wedding and never ask anyone or family members to help us on our budget, and it’s like our decisions is against the world. We are expecting them to at least honor our decisions. But it seems we are the bad guys Please help!
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