I am the mother of the groom. I have been more opinionated than I ever imagined I would be; but I view things differently.
1. I got into an argument with my son about proper lightening to and from the tent ....an event being held on the bride's land. I just fear someone tripping and breaking/spraining an ankle.
2. I regret this one...but I commented that dinner at 7pm might be late for some members of the family. This means some people won't be served until about 7:45. He has also indicate the reception will run after 11pm. I hate to leave the wedding before my family....but really don't think I can last until after 11pm.
3. And my son yelled at me and was very upset because I am upset that they don't want to block out some rooms for my family. The rooms are selling out and must be blocked out. He doesn't believe in having people from out of town stay at the same hotel. (optional of course). And he doesn't believe any type of lunch or fun activity should be provided for a couple of hours for out of towners on the Saturday early afternoon before his 5:30 wedding. I know I will get responses saying it is their wedding. Well the wedding is their wedding but is the entire week end their call. I am mortified at how he is treating my family. He says he chose the date of the wedding based on my family....well my family has college students that are still in college for an earlier wedding. I dread being alone in a hotel at a wedding. I would just as soon drive home after the rehearsal dinner and come back up again. I cold skip the wedding frankly.
4. He is upset that I agreed to pay transportation costs for my family from the airport and then to the countryside for the wedding. I have offered him some money towards the wedding but he declined. I am perplexed that it is any of his business that I provide transportation for my family.