I had a blowout with my future MIL and my fiance's SIL Thanksgiving night. After a lot of talking, crying, fighting, etc. with my fiance, we worked through it. Anyways, it was concluded that I was not at fault and his mom & SIL should apologize to me (and they apparently told him they would). However, 5 days later, I haven't heard from either of them. AND we live on the same property (different houses). I really can't think of a good enough excuse as to why they haven't reached out.....a simple text would be better than nothing. Anyways, his SIL (a bridesmaid) & mom (his mom has custody of his special needs daughter who is a jr.bridesmaid) were supposed to be at an appointment I made for this coming up Sunday for bridesmaid dresses. But to be honest, I don't want to be around them right now. I am still too hurt by everything, and I don't know what I should do. Should I cancel the appointment until after Christmas to give some of this drama time to work itself out (then too, I fear I'll run the risk of them thinking I'm being too sensitive or trying to create more drama)? Or, should I keep the appointment and if they show up I pretend to be ok, or if they don't show up, I pretend to be ok!?! Honestly though, I'm not sure how well I'd be able to pretend to be ok, since they haven't tried to reach out to me yet. WHAT DO I DO!?!
Also, to be honest, now I really wish I would have never asked my fiance's SIL to be a bridesmaid. I only did it, so she wouldn't feel excluded from everything (like I did at her & my future BIL's recent wedding), because my fiance's family is so close and involved with each other....and to hopefully build a better relationship between us. Retrospect, I shouldn't of done that. Can I ask her to step down (even though I don't think I'd have the guts to do so)? OR am I stuck with her in the wedding? Ugh....I feel like everything is so messed up....I thought weddings were supposed to be joyous!!