I hope this isn't too hot of a topic to bring up. But I would like some honest advice about what I should do. Originally in planning I was dead set on walking myself down the aisle, and possibly doing something like having FH meet me halfway. Outside of my dislike for the original tradition of being "given away" by one's father, I have some more personal issues with it. I love my dad. But our relationship is complicated, because there is still a part of me that isn't over the way he has acted towards our family at times over the years. Also though, he is still a soft person underneath all of that. And I am starting to realize that it might really hurt him if I say I want to walk alone, even if I explain that I don't like the tradition (would never say more than that of course). Anyway, is this one of those situations where I should be more considerate and do what would make him happy? Or should I stick to my original plan?