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What should you do? Thank your lucky stars you found out what a horrible person he is before you married him! If you live together, move out immediately, block him from your cellphone and all social media, and never look back.

I'm so sorry you're going through this!

I would recommend talking to your vendors ASAP. Be honest and tell them the wedding is off, and why, to see if there is anything you can do to get some money back. Check your contracts. You will likely not be able to get your deposits back, but you never know until you try!

Wow! This is terrible. Glad he told you now and not after you married him. I’d definitely say leave him if you haven’t already. See if there’s anyway to get some of the money you’ve spent back. Sorry you’re going through this. Hope everything works out.

Stop wedding planning and get to couple’s therapy asap. If he’s not willing to do that, let him walk away.

Oh man I m sorry this happened to you and I hope you have some really amazing friends and family to lean on for support right now. I definitely say cancel the wedding and see what you can do about getting any money back. Wishing you all the best, this is a reflection of him not you.

If he just got someone pregnant, sounds like he cheated on you while planning a wedding. Thank him for taking the trash out, cut him loose, and see if vendors will give your deposits back. You dodged a bullet


I am so very sorry, but it will all be worth it in the end

I'm so sorry to hear that, I guess there is nothing else to do but hold your head up high and leave him in the dust. 💜

Hello my dear I'm so sorry that this has happen to you and I know that you are in disbelief right now. Call what vendors that you have had paid on and your venue to check and see what's in your contracts. And see if you can get get back half of your money it may not be much or nothing at all. And its a good thing that its is 2 or 3mos away or it will definitely be hard to get your money back and to be done with him. Take time out for you to heal and get your mine right and if haven't sent out any invitations but if you have just try to send out a message to everyone that it's called off.

Honestly I would sue him for half the deposits you already paid and leave his ass. He clearly is not someone you should want to spend your life with. Reach out to your vendors and see if it’s at all possible to get any money back. I’m so sorry you’re dealing with this

I'm so sorry to hear this happened to you!

First off, I'd get your stuff and leave him. If you're living together, tell him to be away while you get your things, then either have them sent to a storage place, a friend/ family member's place, or someplace else safe if you need time to find new living arrangements.

Then get in contact with your venue, vendors, etc. and explain the situation. You may not get every penny back, but you might get something back. Whatever you don't get back, I'd demand your ex-fiancé reimburse you for. Not sure whether there's a legal avenue to go down if he refuses, but you could contact a lawyer to see if there's anything that could be done.

Again, I'm so sorry you're in this situation. It sucks, but at least you found out before marrying him. Hope you can find some solace and peace soon.

You can always make more money. Thank goodness you found out before you married him! Leave ASAP

I'm so sorry that happened to you! For sure cancel the wedding and see what money you can recoup from the vendors. Surround yourself with people that care about you and are willing to support you as you heal from this. Take care of yourself.