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soletsdance
Just Said Yes September 2022

need Ideas! Weekend Activities with Guests prior to Sunday Wedding

soletsdance, on August 27, 2021 at 11:11 AM Posted in Parties and Events 0 5

Hi! We are planning on getting married at the Mirage in Vegas on a Sunday evening with ~75 guests and most people will arrive Friday afternoon. I'm trying to brainstorm how we can create opportunities to spend time with our guests Friday/Saturday without spending a lot of money because our budget is about maxed out.

My initial thought was, everyone needs to eat throughout the weekend, so it might make sense to coordinate group dining with Mirage and basically be tell guests what we're doing (e.g. drinks at Center bar for 2 hours on Fri, late brunch at Pantry on Sat, etc.) and they can choose to join us if they want. Obviously with a large group and to reserve space, Mirage can't do separate checks for everyone and there's a F&B min - would it be tacky to provide guests with this "itinerary" ahead of time, the menu, and cost per person and allow them to RSVP have them pay us ahead of time (since we need to pay Mirage up front) if they want to join? I kinda figure you plan to spend money to go to dinner on vacation, so it's kinda similar, we're just coordinating it? (Note: Rehearsal dinner is hosted)

Our wedding is next September, which is still pool season, so maybe he and I can get a daybed and be like "we'll be at the pool from 2-5"? People can pay for their own drinks and food and there's plenty of space in/around the pool if we have a large number of people with us at one time.

Are there any other ideas on how we can be available to hang out with a large number of guests throughout the weekend without needing to pay for them?

What have other people done for destination weddings (not just in Vegas) or with a lot of guests coming from out of town?

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Latest activity by Michelle, on August 29, 2021 at 9:56 AM
  • Samantha
    Super May 2022
    Samantha ·
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    I would not reserve large areas for guests that require them to RSVP/ commit, pay ahead of time. I would just provide people with your itinerary, and invite people to join any of those outtings. Hopefully it would be obvious to them that they are required to pay for and reserve their own tables and food. This leaves them time to do what they want if they want to. IMO

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  • M
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    Maggie ·
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    Exactly this. Go ahead and make your plans and then casually let your guests know where you'll be when, and that you will be happy to see them there.

    But as soon as you make it an invitation requiring an RSVP and put yourself in the position of collecting money from your guests to cover the cost of your events, they aren't guests any more. Some people will be OK with this, but plenty more won't, and it's not worth the risk of offense or the hassle of planning.

    Keep everything except the wedding events you are actually hosting informal and word-of-mouth, and you are golden. And sure, people will need to eat all weekend, but if they are paying, they should get to choose what, when, and how much.

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  • soletsdance
    Just Said Yes September 2022
    soletsdance ·
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    Thanks for the feedback!


    Even if I provide the itinerary (dinner at X restaurant at 7pm) and make a reservation for a reasonably larger party of say 12 and a few make their own reservation, they can say hi and briefly stop by the table, but its not really a visit or good opportunity to catch up with someone I haven't seen in a while? And idk if a restaurant could try to keep all the reservations in the same area so itd be easier to visit other tables?
    Or if I say we'll be at the casino or lobby bar at X time, I just worry 50-60 people would try to be there to talk with us and it'll kinda be a hot mess. BUT I suppose some guests might choose to go off and play slots or whatever and kind of come and go, so maybe I'm just over thinking it?
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  • Jessyca
    Dedicated September 2021
    Jessyca ·
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    I dont think an organized dinner/meal is the right move here.

    My suggestion is to plan casual activities that dont require any reservation - hanging out at the pool, the casino or a specific bar or something like that.

    Let them know where you'll be and that they are welcome to "stop by and say hi or join" - the casual phrasing helps guests know it isnt a formal event.

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  • M
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    Michelle ·
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    I second Jessyca, keep everything else casual as people's concept of time and scheduling are scewed in Vegas (I worked in hospitality for 5 years there). If you can afford it, arrange for a cabana with bottle service on Saturday with reasonable minimums. People can stop by and relax casually. If your Host at the Mirage cannot arrange that, try another pool you can afford. There is alot to do in Las Vegas from shopping to hiking to golfing, so it's best to give your guests a soft timeline for everything else except your wedding.

    Also, don't have people pre-pay for your events. It's awkward. If another friend can host an outting, then go that route. You don't have to plan everything.

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