My sister is getting married just a few months after I am though she got engaged before I did so she's been planning for a little bit longer. She is concerned our weddings will be too similar and has been telling me I can't do/have certain things that she's going to have for her wedding.
How do I begin planning for my wedding without upsetting her? I have been trying to make a mental list of things she has asked me not to do but im having a hard time finding things that I like that she hasn't already taken. We grew up together so we naturally have similar tastes. I want to be respectful but I also want to be able to feel like I can have my dream wedding too.