Need some advice.

My husband and I have been married for over 5 years now, but there were a few things we didn't do at our actual wedding that we would like to do at our vow renewal. We were kinda rushed by my now mil, due to me being an expecting mother at the time. We have an angel baby and a now 4 yr old rainbow-baby daughter. What I need help with is this. We didn't have a proper reception or a first dance at our wedding, and my husband and I never had a shower or bachelor/bachelorette party. We're not asking for gifts, as we did have gifts at our wedding, but would it be ok for us if we had a proper reception and have our first dance? We also have a few ideas that we wanted together for our vow renewal that we didn't have at our wedding, such as my father walking me down the aisle for our ceremony. If we did a tiered cake, I have a wedding topper that I was gonna have passed down from my mother that I wanted to have on the top tier, as we never got to use it at the official wedding, if that's alright as well. With those small details in mind, can it still look like a nice ceremony without it looking like a wedding?