So my FH and I got engaged in May, but because we currently live in CA and plan to get married in NY, we havent been able to really plan or do much venue hunting. We're both from NY so all our family is still there. We originally planned on getting married in Sept of 2020- however, my brother has now proposed to his girlfriend a few weeks ago and they have already booked a venue, a photographer, etc for their Nov 2020 wedding. (Grrr... feeling slightly annoyed...). We are moving back to Long Island, NY next month (mid-Nov to be exact) and I've decided to push up our wedding date because I feel as though its too close to theirs. Even though we were engaged first ( As i type this, I feel like I sound petty...smh...) Anyways...so I think Ive finally found a great venue but I wont be able to see it until next Month. Im really considering hiring a wedding planner to help because I feel like I'd have too much to do, with too little time. The venue said their latest date that they have left is in August so I guess that's okay. My question is..or questions... do I wait to hire a wedding planner until Im back in NY? And to be quite honest, we dont want to waig until 2021 to get married. We're in our 30's and have been waiting to get married to start a family. We're tired of waiting..or at least I sure am. Anyone have advice or thoughts they'd like to share on my situation? Perhaps shed some light
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