Hi, this is actually my first time posting but I was hoping to get an outsider's view on this. My grandparents and aunt aren't currently talking to me because they believe I'm calling them out on being racist and homophobic. I recently came out as bi and my future husband, mom, sister and pretty much everyone around me has shown their support and love. I found out that my grandparents and aunt have been talking behind my back and saying things like "of course she'd be the freak of the family" and "can bi people even get married theyre all messed up in the head how can she marry a guy if she swings both ways?" The worst part is they're saying all of this in front of my little sister. I couldn't believe it until she told me she recorded it. It broke my heart because they have always been my closest family and I love them more than anything but now.. im not even sure if I want them at my wedding. My fiance doesn't think I should have to be the one to reach out first and talk things out. Im hurt and very mad and im not sure how to handle this or even if I should. Has anyone else gone through this? What advice can yall give me?