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Katerina
Beginner June 2021

Need to vent (((

Katerina, on July 9, 2020 at 11:34 PM Posted in Illinois Planning 0 1
Hi COVID brides,


At this point I just need to vent. I am so upset!!! I have been dreaming of a wedding for many years and now that it’s finally here, all the joy of planning is gone because of COVID. We have a guest list of 135 and our wedding is on Labor Day. We first were thinking of moving our wedding but not knowing if things will be worse next year, we decided to keep the wedding date. However, it is so stressful when guests constantly contact me with “suggestions” to move our wedding date and concerns about COVID. This causes issues between me and my fiancé because of the constant back and forth of “let’s keep the date” and “let’s move the date”. I can’t do this anymore. This is supposed to be a fun time, not constant stress!! Smiley sad

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Latest activity by Lynnie, on July 10, 2020 at 5:11 PM
  • Lynnie
    WeddingWire Administrator October 2016
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    I'm so sorry Katerina. That's so tough! Smiley heart

    I'd just make sure you and your fiancé are on the same page, and talk through a few different scenarios and how you'd handle them - so that you don't have to keep having all of that back-and-forth!

    The guest outreach is definitely stressful, but all you can do is share your current plans and be understanding if guests RSVP no out of health concerns. Also try to remember that they each don't realize they're the 10th person today who's bugged you! Smiley laugh

    If you need some venting solidarity, this is a great discussion to join as well: How are you all feeling with Covid-19?

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