My FH and I when talked bout getting married we firstly talked bout a small wedding.
We originally talked bout just having something in his moms back yard with parents , siblings , nephew / nieces and the few friends we had.
Well something flipped in my head. Now we having a 10,000 dollar wedding with estimated 200 people.
My FH husband keeps saying this is my wedding not his. That this isn’t the wedding that he wanted.
And tell me that my mother and his mom thinks I shouldn’t have let it get this big or should’ve just done what we talked bout a year ago before we actually started planning. (My mom apparently says this behind my back not to me because she tell me whatever I want for the wedding it’s my choice )
Well it’s making me feel like crap that I know that how he feels bout the wedding. Like I’m fine with the wedding we having. Like I was happy and exited but the more I keep hearing him say that it making me regret it because of him saying that it isn’t his wedding.
Just needed to vent because I am STRESSED out to the max right now. I could cry 🙃