So here is the background, I come from a very conservative catholic family. My grandparents (who aren't catholic) told me and my boyfriend to live together before marriage, so we did without my family knowing for 3 months. We have gotten engaged, and stopped living together. We truly want to be better as catholics, and that is why we are taking these actions.
Anyways, his family, and co-workers all know we lived together for that time, even though my family has no idea. I am now currently living at my folks house again untill the wedding. Does anyone have advice on keeping the living together period a secret during the wedding? I am worried his family will accidentally slip it out and cause a scene at the wedding. I don't want to tell my family we lived together since it is over and they would then disapprove of our marriage. I could tell his family to not speak of it, but I feel guilty asking them to lie for us. Any thoughts?
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