Hi all, I asked my 4 year old niece to be my flower girl. She lives far away, so I only see her about twice a year. While staying with me last summer, she had an epic tantrum when she wasn't the center of attention, and proceeded to scream for about 45 minutes. We were outside, and went inside while her mom dealt with her outside, and she eventually calmed down. I recently had them over again, and had two bedrooms dedicated to their family. We had small get together with some other children, and after a couple of hours, my niece had another 45 minute screaming fit over something trivial (she didn't want to wash her hands). Her parents did not take her into one of the bedrooms and shut the door, so she proceeded to scream in my hallway until all my friends left at 8:30. I'm worried another tantrum will occur at my wedding. Can I do anything to ensure that if tantrum occurs, they will at least remove her where she won't scream for 45 straight minutes and disturb all of my guests?