Nervous!!

I understand paying for the stepkids, but not the rest of the family?

I wouldn’t pay for them; it’s not your responsibility? You’re stressing yourself out lol I did not do anything we didn’t want to and had the most stress-free day.
I would talk to your FH. Stressing is the last thing you should be doing!!
Best wishes 🤍

I would not pay for that, especially if you had let them know the date of the wedding well in advance.

View Quoted Comment My in-laws are not working and only depend on one check per month I don't really mind helping them but his Brother that another case he had time to get his stuff the family has a tendency of baby him to much .

That sounds super stressful. Maybe set boundaries and let the brother know that you can't afford to assist him since you guys are already over budget

I agree with Jai. Set some boundaries- sounds like the brother is a grown man- he’s responsible for his own things.

We ran into this, too. I spent so much money in the month before our wedding that it was absurd. I'm sorry you're dealing with this. Unfortunately, setting boundaries is easier said than done.

My husband paid for his dad's outfit, I bought the flower girl's dress, and we nearly had to cover one of the groomsmen's suits.