Hi there! So my future husband and I are currently both 19 years old. I will be turning 20 at the end of November and just one month later in December, we are getting married (YAY!!!). To be quite honest, I've never felt so much stress before in my life about our financial standings. Originally, when we went to pick the venue and decided on it, both sides of parents had agreed that they were going to pay for the venue (which is the most expensive part out of everything) and my FH and I are responsible for the rest, but his family has unfortunately not held up their side of the deal and have left it to my family alone. My family is currently struggling with money and I feel as if I am to blame because I chose to get married before 2021 and that I am also causing my FH and I to struggle a little bit as well. Basically my whole point of writing this was to see if anyone else getting married this year or even in 2021 has been having this internal battle with themselves over money due to their wedding and how do you try and cope with the feeling? I know it's not my fault, but I can't help but still feel like it is.
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