My husband and I didn't live together before getting married and I have a seven year old daughter from a previous marriage.
We've been married just over three weeks (and quite honestly didn't date long before getting married), and we have been fighting horribly and often. The issues that spark the fights seem tiny but the way we fight is horrendous. We went to a few premarital counseling sessions before getting married and planned on continuing afterwards.
Outside of poor fighting, our relationship is easy, fun, supportive, and kind. But it's like we're a different couple when we fight.
I know they say the first year of marriage is the hardest, but is this normal?
We have another appointment with our counselor on Saturday but I'm just curious about other people's situations. Maybe it's because we didn't live together before?
I feel lost and I am beside myself that we are struggling so quickly.
Your thoughtful advice or insight is appreciated.